Wednesday, May 4, 2011
The Last Email before Elder Durfee Returns!!!:)
4-25-11
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
4-11-11
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Sunday, April 3, 2011
3-27-11 Happy Birthday Elder!
3-21-11 PS
3-20-11
Friday, March 11, 2011
3/6/11
It is good to hear from you. It has been a very crazy last few days. I have sent a letter! Sorry to take so long. Somehow we just get busy. We are having a snow storm right now. It is predicted to be the biggest of the year with 10-18 inches of snow. It has only snowed 2-3 inches but it has stopped. All the talk and excitement might have been for nothing.
We had a spectacular day this last week. But we will talk about it. We drove 100 miles to Cheyenne on p-day to play games with the other elders. They watched church movies and talked. Very boring not worth the drive but I had fun. That night I stayed with the zone leaders for exchanges and the other elders drove home. Tuesday was exchanges. Wednesday was zone conference in Laramie. We drove home and bunkered down in Kimball, a small town of 3000 people. Thursday we got up and started tracting we set a goal to give out five Book of Mormons and if we did, we would go out for ice cream. We gave out 7 by the end of the day it was a miracle. Friday was weekly planning and Saturday we visited lots of people and found some potential with some less-actives. Sunday we had church and visited lots more people.
Wanda told us that she does not want to meet anymore. It was hard to see her say that to us. We are not sure what happened but she feels God has told her to stay with the community of Christ church. I don’t really think she has received an answer but someone said some mean things about us.
This was our week I hope all is going well. Love,
Elder Durfee
Monday, February 28, 2011
2/28/11
I don't know what the missions rules are for picking up missionaries and driving them home are. If you called the office they would tell you. If you picked me up all we would do is drive the whole time. I would love to see you at the mission home and introduce you to president and sister Ely but the drive would be long. I think we would have just as much fun if I flew and then we would not have to drive 13 hours.
This last week elder Nonu and I had fun. If you have a map, we traveled from Sidney to a city called Kimball. It is actually the second largest in our area. Along the way we stopped in other small towns to tract and try and visit people. We gave out one Book of Mormon and several pamphlets. We also found some people who lived way out there. One man had actually passed away almost a year ago and no one new. I felt sad to think that the ward is so large that people fall threw the cracks.
We traveled to (45 miles) Kimball worked there then received a call that our zone conference in Wyoming is canceled because of a snow storm. We got permission to stay with some members in Kimball and worked out there for a few days. We found a part member family that let us come teach them. We invited the dad to prepare himself to baptize his wife.
We also found a family is Sidney, the Swires the husband is a member and the wife and three kids are not. We taught them about prayer and invite the family to pray as a family every day. At the end of the lesson we invited brother Swires to say the closing prayer. We all knelt down as a family. It was amazing the spirit was so strong. Everyone participated even the kids. I know they felt the spirit. Pray that they have the faith to pray.
Today we are going to be traveling down to Cheyenne. We are going to be meeting up with the Scottsbluff Elders and driving down with them to save miles so we can be with the other elders for at least one P-day.
Love Elder Durfee
PS tell dad thanks for the scripture. This scripture stood out to me, 1 Nephi 1:20. “I, Nephi, will show unto you that the tender mercies of the Lord.” I thought it was profound that Nephi felt that the things that happened to him and his family were “tender mercies” whereas Laman and Lemuel did “Murmur” (1 Nephi 2:12).
PSS happy Birthday Katie good luck driving.
Sunday, February 20, 2011
2-20-11
Thanks for the letter. Business first, I received word that the office wants to know which airport I will fly home too. I told them the phoenix airport can’t remember the name. If this is not right would you call the office and let them know. I really did not have time to think much about it. I was greatly disgruntled by the call and am still suffering in shock at receiving it. Hope you understand.
This last week went great. We made It all the way up to Sidney Nebraska. We are almost the most northern part of the mission. The ward we cover is about 5,000 miles square. We have one of the church ranches in part of our ward. We have members that drive an hour and a half to get to church on Sunday. There is a family who I knew in the Cash la Puder ward that moved up here to work on the ranch. It’s a small world. The area is called a traveling area because they send missionaries up her for 3 months and off for three months. There is so much to be done. Plus we drive a lot if we go to different towns.
A highlight of the week is we taught a family the plan of salvation today. At the end of the lesson he said, “Well, could you guys come back?” it was very exciting. We are also teaching a sister who has come to church for about a month already before we got here and our ward mission leader had an appointment with her our first week. We taught her the Plan of Salvation and the restoration the first week we met her. She is wonderful and has ready a huge chunk of the Book of Mormon already. She had friends invite her to come to “the Church of Christ” she came a few Sundays and then realized we were “Mormon”. Now she is meeting with us and prayed in our last lesson if she should join the church. The members have really reached out and fellowshipped her. It has made all the difference.
Elder Nonu is my new companion. He’s great. Goes home 6 weeks before me but we flew out together. He learned English on his mission. We have too much fun together. Well thanks for the letters. I have sent some pictures. I can get really cold here. It was -40 before I got here with the wind chill. It has been in the 60 – 70 this last week beautiful. We had two days were the wind blew amazingly hard. I thought we should have a very big storm at how windy it was but nope just windy. I thought trees should have blown over. It reminded me of when the wind blows constantly the trees are stronger and can withstand the big storms. But when the wind does not blow and then the storm comes the trees are blown over. I learned to not complain when the wind blows.
Mom I love you , Elder Durfee
Scripture of the week, 1 Nephi 16:28-29
Friday, February 18, 2011
2-14-11
It’s great to hear from you. Sorry to hear about the break up. Way to follow the spirit. Would you tell dad for me that I have not written anyone in a long time, it has been very crazy on Mondays.
I just received word that I am being transferred. President called me as a traveling elder and we are going to either Nebraska or Wyoming. I’m not 100 % which state I will be in but I will be driving the car for about 4 hrs today to get there and have to drop off and pick up my companion along the way.
All my stuff is packed and ready to go. It is hard to leave Brighton. I have really enjoyed it very much. I know one of the elders who will be taking my place. The new place that I will be at is several hours away from anyone else and my new companion goes home this transfer. Elder Isaksen is off to Boulder. He’s excited.
Well happy Valentines Day. I hope you find a new car soon. Tell the family hello for me.
Love Elder Durfee
Thursday, February 10, 2011
2-8-11
I am glad you are feeling better. I submitted aunt Nancy names to the temple this week on Saturday.
It has been a great week. Elder Isaksen has been senior companion all week and did a great job. This week we only had 5 days to do missionary work because we had exchanges and went to the temple.
We started by teaching a less-active sister and her none-baptized daughter Patricia and Shian. We taught the first lesson and invited both of them to read from the book of Mormon and pray about it.
We taught a less-active for the first time Tom Thompson we invited him to read from the scriptures. During the lesson we asked about why he had joined the church and how he came to know it was true.
We taught Lesha and Clint again. The dad, Scott sat in on the lesson. They were sup post to come to church but did not make it and are planning on coming next week. They have some concern we invited them to read every day till church.
We taught another Johnson family in the ward. This family is trying to become active in the church and get the dad baptized. The wife asked us to work with her husband and help him get baptized. She said she wants to go to the temple as a family. We taught of reading the scriptures as a family and they accepted the invitation to read every day. We gave the father a blessing. He was very sick that night. We ended giving each member a blessing. I could feel the power of the blessings. We told the family that it is their time to act.
We taught sister McNeese about how God will help us keep the commandments. For some reason she did not make it to church. We stopped by but she was not home.
We also taught the brother Arellin about reading the scriptures. Sister Arellin was asleep when we came by so we had a great lesson about testimony and coming to know for ourselves. We felt like he needed some testimony building and when we spoke with him he told us that he has never seen his prayers answered before. We talked about it and invited him to look for the prompting of the spirit as he reads every day. They have a date for their son to be blessed in church.
Fort Lupton invited us to teach a referral and the Lightfoot family. The referral went great. We taught the first lesson and found out that her father might be interested in hearing the lessons in Spanish. We have a return appointment and the Spanish elders will be coming. The Lightfoot family is really not progressing but we taught about reading with them. The mom is not really interested and thinks she’s atheist. We have another appointment.
We taught the Bunt family. They have read, prayed and we taught and committed them to come to church. They came this last Sunday and sat in our investigator class. It has been great to see and hear the stories and hear their testimonies as they have continued to act.
We taught De Herarra. We have been talking with him about reading. He has not read and we talked about the blessings with him. Hopefully he will read.
We taught the Roseman family again. We have given them Sunday school study guides and invited them to church. They are excited to read. We brought the home teacher to the appointment.
We also taught a focus family the Chaney’s we taught the restoration and invited them to read every day as a family. The mom likes to talk a lot … Elder Isaksen asked a good question and helped the dad open up some. We noticed at church that the dad sat in the lobby for Elders Quorum. We invited him to come join us but he turned us down. He needs some friends.
It was a great week. We tried to see Matthew but his dad has been very busy at work and his mom has been sick again.
This is all I have time love you mom,
Elder Durfee
Ps we have been working on a teaching pattern. Our teaching has improved a lot. We teach equally and do lots of testifying and our questions are improving.
Pss we drove past a church and their sign said “Prevent truth decay, brush up on the Bible”
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
2-2-11
It is good to hear from you, I’m glad aunt Nancy has been getting some rest. I will continue to pray for her.
Elder Isaksen and I got hair cuts today. Mine is really short again. I won’t send you pictures so you don’t have to look at it. It will grow out in a few weeks.
We have been blessed with people to teach this week. We found a young couple and taught them the restoration. We also street contacted a kid coming home from school and taught him the restoration on the side of the road. I hope his mom will let him take the lessons.
Thanks to elder Isaksen wanting to go tracting a lot we found a family. The Mom and her son are really taking the lessons. There names are Lesha and Clint. We taught them twice this week and invited them to church but they did not come. Lesha told us that her son had asked if they were going to join the church. She said that she was not sure. It has been fun teaching them.
It is exciting serving on the Lords side. I found a great scripture this past week. D&C 84:62. We have been inviting families to write their testimony in Book of Mormons so they could “send forth” their testimonies. It has been a great week.
Love Elder Durfee
Thursday, January 13, 2011
1-11-11

Dear Family,
The work is going forth. Elder Isaksen and I had a great time this last week. He speaks very well for his second language. He is a classical Pianist and very talented. He has perfect pitch. Elder Isaksen has 6 kids in his family. His brothers have served missions and he is the second to youngest in his family. I have attached a picture. He is very funny. He reminds me of Elder Mason Bennett.
Well for the work this week, we had an appointment with a less-active sister, her name is Kerry. She joined the church a few years ago but in the last 4-5 months she has not gone to church at all. We followed up on her scripture reading that we had invited her to do at our last appointment. She had read and had learned so many things that she did not know before. An example would be that she thought that the book of Mormon came on a gold plate, one gold tablet not a whole book. She was very excited and showed us all the things she had marked and learned. I learned the importance of following up on commitments. We taught Kerry about prayer and committed her to pray daily. Elder Isaksen was great because he changed his scripture to something that fit better with Kerry’s needs. It was a great lesson. We told her that Heavenly Father loved her and wanted to hear from her. She committed to pray and continue to read. She was very grateful that we had come over and after the lesson, she gave one of the most heart felt prayers I have ever heard.
We taught the Bute family for the first time. They have been less-active for about a year. We taught them the importance of scripture study. With more zeal then I expected they agreed to read from the scriptures every day till our next appointment.
We had a miracle tracting. It was 8 pm and very dark. Our appointment had fallen threw and Elder Isaksen suggested we go tracting. I was hesitant to tract so late but with a determination to let him learn just how angry people get late night we went right ahead and knocked a bunch of doors. That street had some of the nicest people I have ever met. We had two people set up an appointment with us to hear the restoration. I have been humbled.
Elder Isaksen’s first real lesson with an investigation we had a lesson to transition Hazel to the YSA ward. We had her elders and us teaching her. She committed to be baptized on the 29th. Told us she had been thinking about it since the baptism. She told us that she believes the Book of Mormon is true. It was cool.
We also taught a sister who has been a member for 8 years. Patricia has been less-active for who knows how long. We knocked on her door several weeks ago. She started getting teary eyed when she was speaking with us. She said that whenever she needed some help someone always shows up. We set up a return appointment and left rather quickly. We came back at the appointed time and the husband told us that she was asleep but that she really wanted to talk with us. We dropped by this last week and set up another appointment. At the appointment, we taught her about reading the scripture and she agreed to read daily. She has a lot of family problems right now and is feeling a lot of stress with it. We started talking about the blessing they do have and enjoy right now. Patricia told us that after we had met the very first day she started crying after we had left. She committed to come to church on Sunday.
Family it was a great week thanks for your prayers. I am sorry to hear About Aunt Nancy. I hope she gets better soon. Yeah for dad and work!
I love you have a great week,
Elder Durfee

